The Bucket List – Learn, Do and Go

I love to travel, try new things and learn whenever I possibly can. You might remember that late last year I shared my Bucket List (or F*CK it) List on the blog – if you’ve not seen it you can find it here.

It’s been a while since I have had a chance to update my Bucket List and I’ve checked a few things off of it since (and added some more bits and pieces!) so I thought I’d reshare it and keep you up to date with how it’s all going. I realised that in my first post it was quite hard to read the things that I’ve crossed through as completed so have changed anything that’s been done to red and anything new is in green!

Experiences and Miscellaneous Bucket List

Say YES to new experiences whenever possible

Live in a different country

Get my body to a fitness level and shape that I am comfortable with

Inspire Somebody

Walk the West Highland Way to raise money for Charity

Take the West Highland Line



Swim with sharks and dolphins

Get drunk drunk

House Sit


Ghost hunt or sleep somewhere haunted

Try golf

Take up Yoga

Paragliding or abseiling or skydiving (even though I am terrified of heights)

Karaoke (even though I can’t sing!)

See Dita Von Teese perform


Bucket List Experience: St Patricks Day Dublin
Image: Rebel Dublin

Spend St Patrick’s Day in Dublin

Go to a ceilidh 

Celebrate Burn’s Night in Scotland

Stay in an overwater bungalow

Write a book

Publish my short-stories




Play bingo

Watch a film at the drive in

Run a 10k

Spa Day

Roller Disco

Comedy club

Go to a brewery

Do a bar/pub crawl

Eat ice cream in the snow

Have a snowball fight

Kiss in the rain AND the snow

Bucket List Experience: Breakfast in Bed
Image: My Name is Yeh

Eat breakfast in bed

Have a water fight

Christmas Market

Pay it forward

Ice Bar

Get another tattoo

Watch a performance at The Globe

TEFL or volunteer abroad

Sit in a hot tub


Literary festival

Swim outdoors (not in a pool)

Have an article I’ve written be published

Cut negative people out of my life

Own a roll top bath

Music Festival – I’ve done Beats Beer and Boogaloo in Croatia and am going to We Work Summer CampOn Blackheath and House of Common this Summer too

Have a wood burner

Buy a neon light

Spend the night in a museum

Conservation or humanitarian trip

Skinny dipping in the sea

Swim with dolphins

Go Scuba Diving

Renovate a house

Buy a car and learn basic car maintenance skills (changing a tire etc)

Wear a bikini  – did this for the first time in 9 years on our mini break in Croatia

See Dolly Parton live

Feed Penguins

White Water Rafting

Feed Giraffes

See the Northern Lights

Edinburgh Fringe Festival

Meet an elephant

Read 10 books in 2017

Raise £500 for charity

Skills Bucket List

Learn basic conversational Swedish, French, German, Italian, Spanish, Czech and Chinese




Study history again

Knit a blanket

Make a patchwork quilt

Learn to dance – the jive, salsa, foxtrot, waltz, cha cha cha, quickstep, rumba, tango, paso doble, samba, american smooth, charelston, rock n’ roll, lindybop, and swing

Sew a dress from and without a pattern

Take a photography course – have booked a course with Adam Robertson but haven’t got round to going for it yet!

Cookery lesson

Be able to use chopsticks (!)

Take a self defence class

Travel Bucket List

South America:

Peru (Machu Picchu, Cuzco, Cañón Del Colca)

Bolivia (Rurrenabaque,Uyuni Salt Flats, La Paz, Lake Titicaca, Copacabana)

Brazil (Rio De Janeiro, Iguazú Falls, Ouro Preto, Salvador, Ilha Grande, The Pantenal, The Amazon Rainforest, Sao Paulo, Tiradentes),

Columbia (Cartagena, Ciudad Perdida, Bogota, Santuario de las Lajas, The River of Five Colours, Cocora Valley, Tayrona, Island of Capurganá)

Guatemala (Lake Atitlan)

Chile (Torres del Paine National Park, Moai, Chiloe, Puerto Williams, San Pedro de Atacama, Le Sebastiana, Easter Island)

Ecuador (Galapagos Islands, Quito, Cuenca, Papallacta)

Costa Rica (Monteverde Cloud Forest)

Argentina (Buenos Aires, Mendoza, Ushuaia, Salta, Cordoba)



Bucket List Destination: Morocco
Image: Lonely Planet

Zambia & Zimbabwe (Victoria Falls)

Tanzania (Serengeti, Safari)





South Africa




Greece (Athens, The Acropolis, Crete, Santorini, Delphi)


Bosnia – Herzegovina









Bucket List Destination: Tisno Croatia
Image: Views over Tisno, Croatia

Croatia (Krka National Park, Tisno, Sibenik, Plitvice Lakes National Park, Dubrovnik, Zadar, Hvar, Split)

Czech Republic

England (Stonehenge, York, Chester, Yorkshire, Haworth and the Bronte Museum, Notting Hill Carnival, Alnwick Castle, Holy Island of Lindisfarne, Alton Towers, Legoland)


Iceland (swim in the Blue Lagoon, see a Waterfall, see a Geyser blow, see the Northern Lights, see glaciers)

Scotland (stay overnight in a castle, Loch Lomond, visit the Wallace monument, Culloden Moor, Hogmanay, go over the Glenfinnan Viaduct, Eilean Donan Castle, the standing stones, Orkney Islands, Outer Hebrides, Skye, Loch Ness, Edinburgh, Glasgow, Isle of Arran, Staffa, Isle of Islay, Floors Castle, Stirling)

Estonia ( Tallinn)

France (Paris, Il-de-Re, Disneyland Paris, Nice, Marseille, Provence, Carcassonne, Cote D’Azur, Nimes, Montpellier, Dordogne, Flanders Fields, Monaco, Normandy, Brittany, Lyon, Marseille)

Italy (Put my hand in the ‘Mouth of Truth’ in Rome, Venice, Florence, Sicily, The Colosseum, Pisa, Vesuvius, Pompeii)


Spain (Barcelona, Seville, Malaga, Ronda, The Alhambra)


Germany (Christmas market, Neuaschwanstein Castle, Berlin, Oktoberfest, the Black Forest, Frankfurt)


Ireland & N. Ireland (Giant’s Causeway, Dublin, Cliffs of Moher, Belfast)

The Faroe Islands


The Nordics:

Sweden (Stockholm, Lapland)

Bucket List Destination: Gamla Stan Stockholm
Image: Holiday Guru






Asia & Asia Pacific:


China (Hong Kong, The Great Wall of China)

Indonesia (Bali)

Malaysia (Kuala Lampur)



Bagan, Myanmar




Bucket List Destination; North Thailand
Image: Intrepid Travel


Cambodia (Angkor Wat)

New Zealand

Russia (Moscow, St Petersburg, The Kremlin, Red Square, St Basil’s Cathedral, The Winter Palace, The Trans-Siberian railway)




Sri Lanka

The Americas:


Road Trip across the USA:

(New York, San Francisco, Boston, Orlando, Maine, Chicago, Honalulu, Charleston, Savannah, Key West, Everglades, Yosemite, Gran Canyon, Oregon, California, Washington DC, New Orleans, Disney World Orlando, Universal Studios Orlando, Nashville, Pigeon Forge, Memphis, Graceland, Grand Canyon, Route 56, Portland, Yosemite National Park – gosh the USA needs it’s own bucket list for me!!)

New England in the Autumn

Bucket List Destination St Lucia
Image: Telegraph

The Caribbean (Barbados, St Lucia, Grenada, Trinidad and Tobago, Antigua, St.Kitts-Nevis, Puerto Rico, Jamaica)

Cuba (Havana, drink mojitos and salsa dance)

I’m sure that my Bucket List will keep on changing, and so I plan to do updates of this Bucket List once or twice a year. I’m forever finding out about new destinations, experiences, skills or dream hotels that I’d like to stay in (in fact I now have such a big list of dream accomodation that I may have to create an entire seperate Bucket List post for that alone!). What’s a ‘must-have’ bucket list item for you?

Alex xxx

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  • Reply Natalia August 4, 2017 at 3:02 pm

    Love these bucket list suggestions! We swam with whale sharks in Mexico and it was honestly one of the most incredible experiences, so that is worthy of being on your list! Also South Africa is one of my favourite countries, so glad thats on there too! Hope you get to do all of these amazing things!

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 4, 2017 at 5:24 pm

      Wow I would love to swim with sharks – I used to want to be a marine biologist and so really that ought to be on my bucket list! 🙂

  • Reply Cath August 4, 2017 at 4:52 pm

    That’s quite a list you have there, good luck with it

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 4, 2017 at 5:24 pm

      Thanks Cath – it sure is substantial but always better to dream big!

  • Reply WhodoIdo August 4, 2017 at 7:43 pm

    My bucket list seems to be getting longer! Would absolutely love to see the Northern Lights. My husband and I have talked about doing a road trip across USA for 6 months and also travel from Sydney to Perth in a camper. Oh the roller disco is great fun! ; )

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 4, 2017 at 8:03 pm

      I’ve not really looked into Australia but a USA roadtrip would be incredible!

  • Reply lexie August 4, 2017 at 8:48 pm

    Wow that’s a long list over there, I’m curious of your progression. If its me I would try the same too why not bucketlists may ressemble an impossible dream to make but if you pursue things might turn on positively and who knows you can finish all this bunch of countries. I would love to add South Korea in Asia though plus Croatia and Iceland . thanks for this cool article.

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 4, 2017 at 8:51 pm

      Thanks Lexie – I adored Croatia and Iceland but have not really looked into South Korea (will do some research!)

  • Reply Cat Holladay August 4, 2017 at 9:09 pm

    What an inspirational list! One of the things I hate about these lists (for me anyway) is that no matter how many things I check off, I always seem to add 3 more! As someone who likes to complete things, I find my list annoys me! But, I suppose there are worse problems to have!

    Congrats on checking so many of yours off in the last year! You’ve been busy!

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 9:28 am

      Oh gosh I am the exact same with lists – this one not so much as it’s a reminder of what i’m working towards. Whenever I have a bad day at work I open it up and it’s an instant reminder of exactly why I work so hard 🙂 xx

  • Reply Roamingourearth August 4, 2017 at 10:47 pm

    That’s an awesome bucket list. Looks like you have a lot to cover! Keep me posted it you are ever heading to South Africa. Would happily assist where I can (I live here)
    A few years ago, I went shark cage diving in the South Coast. It was an experience of a lifetime.
    We recently got back from Kenya where we got to feed giraffes. Absolutely amazing experience.

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 9:29 am

      Wow I would love to go shark cage diving! I’ve added a safari to my list as it would be such an incredible experience. Thanks 🙂

  • Reply Anushka August 5, 2017 at 3:43 am

    Wow what a vast bucketlist, but that’s what we travelers are as we tick one place in our bucketlist we add few more, you covered almost everything. Right now in my bucketlist is scuba diving.

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 9:30 am

      Yep there’s always more to add so it’s never going to be a list where I get to tick everything off! For a start i’d need to win the lottery to afford it all! x

  • Reply lloyd August 5, 2017 at 4:03 am

    wow! you have your work cut out with that list but best of luck to you! roller disco, oh my that takes me back when i was a kid 🙂

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 9:31 am

      I definitely do have my work cut out – it’s pretty long and I hope to get as much ticket off as I can – slowly but steadily making plans to cover it 🙂 I’ve never been to a roller disco but they look like such fun!

  • Reply Inge August 5, 2017 at 9:50 am

    Great list! I want to do most of these things too! Except for sleeping in a haunted place… Never!

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 9:52 am

      Ha my husband isn’t keen on that one either so if I do it it’ll be alone!

  • Reply Lisanne August 5, 2017 at 10:15 am

    What an inspirational list! Do you have a certain age you want to do all this before?

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 10:27 am

      No time limit (there’s way too much on there to set a limit ha!)

  • Reply Vicki August 5, 2017 at 10:56 am

    Wow seems like you will be really busy covering them all. I also share the dolphin one. It’s a big dream of mine. Yesterday I was able to meet an elephant and have a bad in the dirt with them in Thailand. Absolutely amazing experience. Keep us posted on how you fulfill all these dreams. All the best for it!

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 12:27 pm

      Oh wow would love to meet an elephant! What an amazing experience 🙂

  • Reply Chiera August 5, 2017 at 11:08 am

    I am SO Inspired by this! So much of what is on oyour list I never realised I wanted to do untill just now! What a great idea for a post! You’ll feel amazing when you look back on this post and everything is in red!!

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 12:28 pm

      Thanks Chiera! I hope one day I do get to tick everything off – for now I just keep adding to it ha!

  • Reply Travelling Dany August 5, 2017 at 12:08 pm

    I can see myself in so many of the things listed in your bucket list! Well… maybe except for the pub brawl! 😀

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 12:29 pm

      🙂 I am a massive beer fan so a pub crawl would be a great way to try lots of new beers (and bars!)

  • Reply Ruth August 5, 2017 at 12:13 pm

    What a list! I might have to adopt a few of your goals for my own bucket list 😄

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 12:29 pm

      Thanks Ruth! It was great actually writing them all out 🙂

  • Reply Raquel August 5, 2017 at 12:39 pm

    You’ve put a lot of thinking time to create this extensive bucket list! I have many of these items on my list too 🙂 I am particularly looking forward to Iceland!:) Scuba Diving is awesome!! You will love it!

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 11:00 pm

      Iceland was incredible! One of my favourite trips ever and I’d love to go back!

  • Reply Lyf&Spice August 5, 2017 at 2:55 pm

    I love the way you have categorized items in your bucket-list. I agree with you that there are so many different types of targets to be achieved across categories that a common bucket-list can’t be framed.

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 11:01 pm

      Thanks 🙂 I love travel so it of course features heavily but there are so many other things I’d love to do too that i couldn’t leave off!

  • Reply Joyce August 5, 2017 at 4:58 pm

    Gong to Morrocco and living in a different country are on my long and ever changing bucket list as well!

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 11:02 pm

      I’d love to live in a different country but the hubby isn’t keen so that will have to wait many years I think! 🙂

  • Reply Lena Ameri August 5, 2017 at 7:30 pm

    What a great bucket list! We recently went to Colombia and LOVED it!!! Also, saying yes to experiences is so important! You never know what saying yes can bring you.

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 11:03 pm

      Completely agree – some of the best things I’ve ever done were from saying yes when the opportunity presented itself! 🙂 x

  • Reply Ambuj Saxena August 5, 2017 at 7:42 pm

    What a bucket list! Unlike you, I keep getting flashes of things i wish to do and places I wish to visit but never keep a stock of them. However, among the green items, I think scuba diving and swimming with dolphins can be done in India. I took a scuba diving course in Andaman islands and once when i was swimming on the famous Radhanagar beach, we saw a dugong (a sea cow) swimming alongside us. Since it is herbivorous so it didn’t harm us but it was still worth the experience! Time to plan a trip to India I guess?

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 11:04 pm

      Wow that sounds like an incredible experience! I would love to visit India – would you say it is a child friendly country to travel around? 🙂

  • Reply Sarah Shumate August 5, 2017 at 10:58 pm

    Well, that is quite a bucket list! You’ve pretty well covered everything, I think, except your USA road trip should probably also include a stop in Nashville, not that I’m partial or anything. 🙂 (That’s technically “home” for me, even though we’ve been living in other countries the past few years.) Good luck making your way through the list – if you even complete half of these that would be one heck of a good life story to tell.

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 5, 2017 at 11:06 pm

      Oh Nashville goes without saying for me 🙂 I’m a massive country music fan and so have to go to Nashville, Memphis and Pigeon Forge! I hope to get through as many as I can – can only give it my best shot! x

  • Reply Samantha Sparrow August 6, 2017 at 5:05 am

    Now that’s a huge bucket list! I would totally love to go whale watching too, and also see Dita von Teese! I have seen Miss Polly Rae who is the UK equivalent and it was amazing!

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 6, 2017 at 11:59 am

      I love Miss Polly Rae! So envious that you’ve seen her live :)Thanks!

  • Reply Ania | Snow to Seas August 6, 2017 at 10:23 am

    I love your bucket list and how you’ve divided it up into experiences, places to visit, and skills! I still have yet to go to a music festival, but I would love to someday. Also, I see that Bosnia and Herzegovina is a new addition to your travel list – it’s a country well-worth the visit. Thanks for sharing!

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 6, 2017 at 11:59 am

      Thanks Ania! Music festivals are great and there are so many to choose from – I tend to enjoy the smaller ones more 🙂

  • Reply Megha August 6, 2017 at 6:43 pm

    That is awesome! A well-complied list.

  • Reply Julianna August 6, 2017 at 6:52 pm

    So much inspiration in one post! There’s so many of these that I want to try. Now where to start 🙂

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 6, 2017 at 8:31 pm

      Thanks Julianna 🙂

  • Reply Digital Travel Guru August 6, 2017 at 9:03 pm

    I absolutely loved the way you have put this post together, you have some many places on your bucket list that I have to lol. You have really inspired me to put something down on paper or computer to have a visual guide of my list, the way you organised it is fabulous. Thanks for sharing.

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 7, 2017 at 6:56 am

      Thank you 🙂 I loved putting it together and seeing it grow and change as I do – it’s a great exercise to do! x

  • Reply Portia August 7, 2017 at 7:24 am

    I love the idea of having a bucket list, it’s not something i’ve done before but you have inspired me!

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 7, 2017 at 1:12 pm

      Thanks 🙂 It’s such a great reminder when I’m having a tough day at work!

  • Reply Hra August 7, 2017 at 8:03 am

    Wow so many things to do and go!! Lovely list!! Thanks for these ideas <3

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 7, 2017 at 1:12 pm

      Thanks Hra 🙂 I’m glad you enjoyed it x

  • Reply Rahat Arora August 7, 2017 at 6:09 pm

    Ohh amazing list but I suggest you when you travel to Asia add Bhutan, Tibet too in that list. Also you can visit a trip Nepal, Bhutan and Tibet

    • Reply bettertogetherhome August 7, 2017 at 9:18 pm

      Thanks Rahat – will take a look at those! I am always adding to our list 🙂 x

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